Proverbs 5:8 “Keep a path far from her, do not go near the door of her house.”

As a boy growing up in Edinburgh I lived in a very old part of the town. There were many derelict buildings, ruined houses, overgrown gardens and creepy lanes and passages.

On wild autumn moonlit nights with dark rushing clouds up-lit from sulphur-yellow street lights my imagination would run wild and I would sometimes feel like hiding, shivering, in the cold tenement basement stair-wells.

There were rumours of a “red lady” who would appear at windows in a nearby empty house. I was too scared to glance at the windows on the way past, even on a summers day.

We would dare each other to go into empty gardens, or to stand inside the graveyard gates at dusk, or even to go into condemned or derelict buildings. Most times I would end up fleeing through the lanes and streets, running for the safety of the known from the unknown.

Of course, now as a grown man, I know better, and I no longer have anything to prove.

But even today there are places in life and aspects of life that would like to draw me in that are not good for me or my future.

In Psalm 16:6 [ISV] it is written, “The boundary lines have fallen in pleasant places for me; truly, I have a beautiful heritage.”

This scripture allows me to ask myself great questions each day about where my boundaries are in my thinking, emotions, physical and intellectual life, and to position myself for a “beautiful heritage”.

 

KNOWLEDGE

Run, run for your spiritual life. Get as far removed as possible, 7. Take action, be proactive, step in, mobilise, recognise, and strategize. Don’t glance, look, or stare, don’t edge closer, drift off course, or slip down.

Be deliberate, don’t go into that part of town, don’t stumble into that district, don’t wander into that street, and don’t gravitate towards that door. Trouble waits for you there, degradation is posted there to take you out, and bitterness will fill your cup till overflowing. You will know what it is to be full…….of sorrows, regrets, pain, and self-remonstrations.

No matter how good it sounds, smells, or looks, it is the highway to destruction, and the consequences of your choices will be sourness in your soul.

You are warned, pay heed. This is very much the wrong way.

UNDERSTANDING

Let’s pick one word from this verse to look closer at and see if that can help us gain a deeper insight into how God would love us to live?

The word for “door” in Hebrew is pronounced “petah” and is found 164 times in the Old Testament. In the ESV this word is translated into the following English words. Door; entrance; socket [of the temple]; and, gates.

In verse eight here we can consider amplifying “door” to include any way in, literal and figurative.

WISDOM – where are you seeing a drift in your life?

STRENGTHS THOUGHT: Deliberative works well in the boundary areas of life, makes inspired relational decisions and naturally steers away from snares and distractions. It’s wise to pause and consider.

Allan’s Unauthorised Version – [maintain your conduct and way of life distant and remote, do not come near, be brought near or even approach the open way to her understanding or home.]

PRAYER: Father, thank you for today. Help me to know my boundaries well and to observe them with joy and peace. Thank you!

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